Cover of Getting to Yes by Roger Fisher, William Ury

Getting to Yes

Roger Fisher, William Ury

Why I recommend it

This is a useful guide to understanding what people need from a negotiation. It helps move a conversation beyond two fixed positions.

What it changed in my thinking

A demand may be protecting something that hasn’t been said yet. Understanding that can make an agreement possible.

Who it’s useful for

Anyone trying to reach an agreement and preserve a relationship.

A tension or limitation

It’s harder when power is unequal or someone is acting in bad faith. Know your boundaries and alternatives.