Cover of The Art of Memoir by Mary Karr

The Art of Memoir

Mary Karr

Why I recommend it

Karr looks closely at voice, memory, and the difficult work of telling the truth about a life. She brings a memoirist’s experience and a teacher’s attention to what makes personal writing feel alive.

What stayed with me

Memory is imperfect, but that doesn’t let us off the hook for being honest. A strong voice can make room for doubt, including the possibility that someone else remembers things differently.

Who it’s useful for

People writing memoir, personal essays, or family stories, and readers curious about the choices behind a memoir.

A tension or limitation

The advice comes with a strong point of view. It’s worth trying the ideas against your own work without assuming every writer needs to sound or work like Karr.