Cover of The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier

The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever

Michael Bungay Stanier

#Business Coaching & Conversation

Why I recommend it

This is a compact, usable reminder that coaching begins with curiosity. Its questions help managers resist the urge to solve too quickly and give another person room to think.

What it changed in my thinking

It reinforced that advice can interrupt discovery. Staying with a thoughtful question a little longer often reveals the real challenge beneath the first problem presented.

Who it’s useful for

Managers, coaches, mentors, and anyone whose helpfulness sometimes turns into taking over another person’s problem.

A tension or limitation

A small set of questions can become formulaic. Good coaching still depends on listening, context, trust, and knowing when direct guidance is actually needed.